Micro Wedding, Big Trend!

If it's one thing 2020 taught us, by force or not, it's the art of adaptation. We're no longer sitting on our couch, waiting for the day we hear "there are no more active Covid-19 cases". Because quite frankly, we'll probably be waiting for a long long time. Instead, we've learned to be grateful for what we have, we've learned to live in the present, to be mindful and to find new ways...to be married.

Trinidad & Tobago has done a commendable job of controlling the spread of Covid-19 in our beautiful twin island. YAY! Now, because of everyones diligence and effort the hospitality industry can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Don't get me wrong, weddings aren't going to be what they used to, but to me that's even more exciting! Now we get the chance to redefine the industry and get a fresh start.

MICRO WEDDINGS... need I say more? 

Wedding Spot Blog refers to a micro wedding as any ceremony and/or reception with less than 50 total guests. Why sacrifice the chance to celebrate, when you can have a romantic and intimate affair with those nearest and dearest to you. If you're planning on your own, or hiring a planner, here are some Tulle and Tuxedo approved tips!

#1 Let your imagination run wild!

Trinbagonians are used to a big fat wedding, but sadly we're limited to smaller gatherings for the time being. Having a smaller event means that we have some wiggle room in our budgets where we can really create an experience like no other. 

#2 Be open minded to new venue options

Ballrooms are beautiful, but with your smaller guest list you have many more options when choosing your venue. Think outside the box. Choose a cute cafe, a small restaurant, a nearby park, or even your backyard. 

Picture this: An intimate ceremony at sunset followed by a candlelit dinner at the restaurant you and your partner had your first date. #chills

#3 Cover the basics

Focus your attention and budget on food, drinks and music. Your guests will remember how great your food was, how much the drinks were flowing, and how much fun they had at your wedding! I always say that a wedding is an experience like no other, and more focus should be placed on making your night one of the most memorable nights.

Pro tip: Get your guests involved. Have them request a song on their RSVP cards (or simply via a text). This way, when their favourite song plays its a special moment for you both.

#4 Hire a photographer and videographer

While you may not need an 8-hour photographer to follow your every move, you definitely want to capture all of the special moments. After all, this is a story for the grandkids!

#5 Make it meaningful

Love always wins. Getting married and celebrating your love for one another is not cancelled. Having a smaller guest list makes it even more special. Give your guest a hand written note or hand made gift to express your gratitude and love for their role in your special day. A smaller guest list means that you also can have some more time with your guests, share more laughs, more hugs (can we do this #covid-19?), and more special memories.

A micro wedding is surely a trend which will continue even after this pandemic has gone, it's a beautiful and memorable experience which leaves you more relaxed, saves you money and is easy to personalise. 

Let us know if you have any advice for our couples who are considering a micro wedding. Stay safe everyone!

With Love, 

Tulle and Tuxedo